The Libertyville ACOA Meetings are held each Monday evening from 7:00 to 8:30 p.m. at the St. Lawrence Episcopal Church in Libertyville, IL. The church's address is:

125 W Church St
Libertyville, IL 60048
Phone:(847)362-2110

Meetings are held every Monday night without fail!

(The meeting is held on the Church's lower level. Park in the rear and enter through rear doors)

 

 

 

 

Introduction

Welcome to ACOA. Adult Children of alcoholics is a 12-Step, 12-Tradition program of women and men who grew up in alcoholic or otherwise dysfunctional homes. We meet with each other in a mutually respectful, safe environment and acknowledge our common experiences. We discover how childhood affected us in the past and influences us in the present.

The Problem

We take positive action. By practicing the 12 Steps, focusing on the solution, and accepting a loving Higher Power of our understanding, we find freedom from the past and a way to improve our lives today.

Why We First Came to ACOA

Our lives didn't work; they had become unmanageable. We exhausted all the methods we thought were supposed to have made us happy, healthy, and successful. In trying to reach our desired ends, we exhausted our resources. We often lost our creativity, our flexibility, and our sense of humor. No matter what we did, the results no longer gave us the thrill, the joy, the sense of power, or the feeling of elation they once did. We were at a dead-end. Continuing the same existence was no longer an option. Nevertheless, we couldn't quite abandon the notion that if we knew just one more thing about how the world worked... So we tried one more time. With little to win, nothing to lose, we came to our first meeting.

Why We Keep Coming Back

In ACOA we come to understand how our childhood experiences affect our behavior and choices today. We learn how our behavior affects others, and we learn that we can change it. Gradually, from an adult perspective, we reexamine our life decisions. This is the first step in reparenting. Ultimately we become happier, stronger, more capable, and more able to take on a proactive role. We learn to be more respectful of ourselves. The quality of our lives improves as we learn to define and communicate our boundaries and insist that they be honored.

 

Welcome to the Monday Night ACOA Group meeting. This information is to serve as an introduction to our group in hopes that by clarifying our purpose and direction you too will become an active growing recovering member of our ACOA family.
· Meetings are held each Monday evening from 7:00 to 8:30 p.m. at St. Lawrence Episcopal Church (lower level, enter through rear doors)
· A special business session is held following the second Monday meeting of each month and is open to all members.
· We are a non-smoking group.
· Our weekly discussions alternate each week between one of the ACOA characteristics and one of the twelve steps. A volunteer prepares the opening lead (15 to 20 minutes long) that serves as a focal point for discussion in our small groups. During our small group discussions, we refrain from cross talk to insure each person uninterrupted sharing time.
· All group members are invited to join us after our meeting is adjourned at a local restaurant for a casual gathering of ACOA fellowship (Baker’s Square on Milwaukee Avenue). The chairperson will ask if any members will be going for coffee and fellowship before the close of the meeting. Those planning on attending will indicate so by a show of hands.

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