Weekly Meeting Lead Topics


Lead Topic

11/5/18Step 3 
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we understood him.
11/12/18Trait 1
We became isolated and afraid of people and authority figures.

11/26/18Tradition 5   
Each group has but one primary purpose - to carry its message to the adult child who still suffers.
12/3/18Step 4
Made a searching and moral inventory of ourselves.
12/10/18Trait 2
We became approval seekers and lost our identity in the process
12/17/18Step 5
Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

Trait 3
 ***Christmas Eve***  NO MEETING WILL BE HELD
12/31/18Step 6
 ***New Years Eve***  MEETING WILL BE HELD
1/7/19Trait 4
We either become alcoholics, marry them, or both, or find another compulsive personality such as a workaholic to fulfill our sick abandonment needs.
1/21/19Tradition 6
An ACoA group ought never endorse, finance or lend the ACoA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
1/28/19Step 7Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.


Trait 5
We live from the viewpoint of victims and are attracted by that weakness in our love and friendship relationships.
2/11/19Step 8Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
2/18/19Trait 6
.e have an overdeveloped sense of responsibility and it is easier for us to be concerned with others rather than ourselves. This enables us to not look too closely at our own faults.


Step 9
Made a direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

Trait 7

We get guilt feelings when we stand up for ourselves instead of giving in to others.
3/18/19Tradition 7
Every ACoA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.


Step 10
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
4/1/19Trait 8
We became addicted to excitement.
4/8/19Step 11
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
4/15/19Trait 9
We confuse love and pity and tend to “love” people we can “pity” and “rescue”.
4/22/19Step 12Having had a spiritual awaking as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
4/29/19Trait 10We have stuffed our feelings from our traumatic childhoods and have lost the ability to feel or express our feelings because it hurts so much.